Sometimes I wonder whether some of the friendships you have really are friendships. It so often happens that a third party informs you of some element that you overlooked in the purity of friendship, and the entire thought process changes drastically.
Why is it so difficult for a guy and a girl to be just friends? Why does a third angle always come into place? I was strictly of the view that such things are of days gone by, but it was a rude awakening for me that some skeptics still exist.
In fact, on second thoughts, the biggest skeptics of a pure friendship between a guy and a girl are the very two people involved in it.
And your "social network" leaves no stones unturned to turn that fledgling flame of doubt into a full blown fire. Your friendship is talked about behind your back, people are pretty darn convinced that either one is "trying" hard for the other. Basically, there is a talk about every aspect that can be used to find ulterior motives.
Such talks are all a little pointless, and often for gossip's sake. But what such ignorance doesn't realize is the harm it may be causing a pure friendship.
Get well people. Learn to accept a guy and a girl as just friends. You may be wiser of it.
And with that - I think I need some time of my "social network", what with exams and rather pointless discussions. Adios.
Why is it so difficult for a guy and a girl to be just friends? Why does a third angle always come into place? I was strictly of the view that such things are of days gone by, but it was a rude awakening for me that some skeptics still exist.
In fact, on second thoughts, the biggest skeptics of a pure friendship between a guy and a girl are the very two people involved in it.
And your "social network" leaves no stones unturned to turn that fledgling flame of doubt into a full blown fire. Your friendship is talked about behind your back, people are pretty darn convinced that either one is "trying" hard for the other. Basically, there is a talk about every aspect that can be used to find ulterior motives.
Such talks are all a little pointless, and often for gossip's sake. But what such ignorance doesn't realize is the harm it may be causing a pure friendship.
Get well people. Learn to accept a guy and a girl as just friends. You may be wiser of it.
And with that - I think I need some time of my "social network", what with exams and rather pointless discussions. Adios.
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